Many people feel that Xmas has become over-commercialised and that we’ve lost sight of the things that make it special, such as spending time with friends, family and loved ones, celebrating, resting and showing compassion and generosity.
In the midst of all the pressure and stress of Xmas it can be difficult for us to remember the things that really matter to us at Xmas and the steps we can take to build more of them into the festive period. We simply need to remember that we are in control of our lives and can create the Xmases we want – we don’t have to endure the commercialised and rushed version of Xmas that seems to be the modern norm!
Below are some brief ideas on how we can get the Xmas we really want.
One important aspect of Xmas for many of us is spending time with other people, and there are many things we can do to get the most out of this, including inviting neighbours round for a drink, watching less TV and showing hospitality to friends who don’t have anything arranged for Xmas. We can also give ourselves the chance to have a more restful Xmas by prioritising our time, only doing essential Xmas tasks and asking other people to help us with those tasks we have to do.
Showing generosity is also important to us at Xmas - but you don't need to buy people lots of stuff to do this! For example, we could be generous in the amount of time, effort, attention, affection or many other things we could give them. This could involve visiting someone, making a phone call, helping out with the chores, making gifts or many other things.
Xmas is traditionally a time when people are encouraged to think and act in a compassionate way. It is an ideal time to start carrying this thinking and behaviour into your day-to-day life on an ongoing basis. This can cover a range of behaviours – from showing forgiveness to helping someone in need. Acts of compassion and forgiveness can take bravery, but perhaps there could be opportunities for you to do them in your life – even in situations you previously thought impossible?
It may involve going out of your way to do an unselfish act for someone else, to admit a share of the blame for an argument (even when you feel you were right) or putting yourself in an awkward position for a moment in order to raise a sensitive issue. Challenge yourself to find the courage to do it where, in your heart of hearts, you think it is needed.
Many of these steps to simplify and take control of our Xmases support another important point – the need to live sustainably. Xmas can be a time of enormous waste and environmental impact, and this is often driven by our thirst for more material goods and our supply systems importing food, gifts and other goods from around the world. By seeking a more meaningful and relaxed Xmas, we may find ourselves consuming less and living more sustainably – for example, by making presents, decorations and some Xmas food rather than buying imported products that have high ‘Xmas miles’.

Christmas is on. Everyone is buying gifts for everyone. Have you planned something for her, too. What! You are planning a surprise gift for her. Great idea! But have you decided what would it be? As you are not left with much time now, here are some tips to find out a perfect present for her:
Lingerie - A Perfect Gift for Women

Yes, this is a perfect gift that your woman would love to receive from you. Often women buy lingerie themselves. But, at deep down of their hearts, they do wish their husbands would buy them a pair of lingerie and present as a surprise gift in bedroom. Why not? If you feel shy of going to women’s and select and buy lingerie there, you can always do that in privacy of your home or office, too. There is a lot to choose from like bras, corsets, thongs, briefs, stockings and packages. If you are spoiled for the styles, try from Macpherson’s collection of women’s lingerie. There are many online gift shops which offer a great collection of women lingerie online. Just order them online and find a gift pack delivered at your address within hours. Don’ worry! They are always in your budget.
Buy Her Sleepwear or Swimwear
Women have grown bore of wearing all common sleepwear of their own likes. They have always wanted to wear one that would please their husbands but always end up buying something as usual. This would be a great experience for both of you if you buy her a sleepwear of your choice. A swimwear would add spices to the recipe you are cooking for. Again, there is no need to go to women’s store and manually select one befitting to your taste and type. No more of parking problems, jams and hassles of malls and stores. Just browse through the online stores, find out a sleepwear or swimwear of your like and order it online. It will be there when you want it.
Please Her with Perfumes –
You can not buy lingerie or swimwear for your girlfriend. She may not like the idea very much. There are some other gifts that every woman likes, without an exception. Perfume tops the list. Fragrances are the perfect gift for any women. Choose from Yves Saint Laurent, Paul Smith, Calvin Klein, Versace, Elizabeth Arden, Chanel and many more popular fragrances. Why bother to go to market. Just explore the market available in your PC, order it online and get it in your hand.
Why think of wives and blonds only. There are some other women who hold a very important place in your life. Who denies? There are umpteenth of gifts available for mothers, too. Just visit some of the online gift stores and you will be surprised to see how much you can buy here at how low the price, and how conveniently. Internet has really revolutionized the way man could please women. So, what is your present for her this Christmas?